Saturday, March 12, 2016

Two countries


Here we are on our next-to-last night in this amazing place. We have heard about national branding and the promotion of tourism from the Botswana Investment and Trade Center, and we have heard from the US Embassy Economics Officer about the challenges of doing business in Botswana as a foreigner. We have interacted with tutors and school children in an after-school program for vulnerable youth and also heard about the national education system and English language learning and the gaps therein. Today, during an outing to Mokolodi Nature Reserve, we learned about efforts to stem poaching in Botswana. The government has a very hard stance on this issue, but in a country of just over  2 million people (and slightly smaller than the state of Texas), enforcement is an issue. Punishment may be little more than a modest fine. At the level of tribal government, however, this may be much more severe.

Botswana is full of dichotomies. There are extraordinarily rich citizens, thanks to diamond mining, and there are extremely poor Batswana as well. Yet, according to The World Bank, Botswana is classified as a "upper middle income country." HIV-AIDS is still a huge problem here. The government pays for treatment (including antiviral drugs) for HIV+ citizens. What happens when the diamond money runs out? 

Yes, Botswana is full of contradictions. At some point this week, though, our shared human values began to emerge. Despite many divisions, the "Botswana way," as we have learned, has everything to do with human connection. Shake every hand. Smile. Acknowledge. Listen. Communicate. Listen. Listen. Listen. 

If there is one thing I wish we could learn from our friends here, or one thing the importance of which  we might be inspired to revisit, it is the power of face-to-face, human-to-human, spirit-to-spirit communication. It takes time. It takes patience. It takes an openness of mind and heart that, in our  world of easy one-way communication, we often ignore. As we spend one last day here, I hope to think about the way my own patterns of interaction might be affected by my many encounters here in Botswana.  

Wednesday, March 9, 2016

Two steps forward, and one drive backwards: Dominican life in reverse.

The past two days have been extremely busy ones, so it's time for a recap! Monday we started the day by going to visit a small children's school and a water filtering place. We learned how they were able to filter water and provide it to the community at a low cost. We even got to see them sealing the water bottles. 
After that, we headed to a local hospital. This hospital, however, was nothing like what we would find in the states. 

While we were there, we learned that the center is very popular for doing eye surgeries, and their optometry department was one of the biggest parts of the hospital. We were able to go into most of the different rooms and areas; we even got to see their operating room, and we were able to see some of the people both pre and post-op surgery.  One of the people coming out of surgery had been sedated, but there were no machines hooked up to her. It was pretty weird because they almost have no way of monitoring a person; we didn't even see an IV. They also had big centers for hearing, children, and general doctoral needs.
After the hospital tour, we got to visit a Dominican university. It was the first university to be built in the New World, and it was beautiful! The campus was huge, and the views as we were walking were perfect. There was a slight breeze blowing the palm trees, and everything was just very calming. There was artwork spread thoughout the entire campus on the walls, ceilings, everywhere. On our way back to the house, we passed a special restaurant, and we had gone to far... Our bus driver then proceeded to back up on a BUSY Dominican road for a seemingly long amount of time. We were all dying of laughter by the time Rafael, our driver, had finished backing up. 

On Tuesday, we ventured out to a super cool cave, toured la casa de campo, and visited a batey. The cave was cool and dark, and we made a friend with the little boy who was also in our group.  



At la casa de campo, we found a super cool amphitheater. It was beautiful, and it had an abundance of stairs. 

To end the day, we visited a batey, which is a Haitian neighborhood in the Dominican Republic. We got to talk with some of the people who lived there, and we also got to play with all of the kids there. 

Tuesday, March 8, 2016

Hope and Peace

Two words that describe our day: hope and peace.

Here is another: lekgoa--a complicated word in Satswana, the language spoken in Botswana. Uttered by a child when seeing a white adult make for example, it may seem innocent enough. "Lekgoa!" or "White man!" (I remember similar comments from smiling, inquisitive children in China when I was there a year ago on a teaching exchange.) Spoken by an adult, it may not be welcome.

The term literally means "vomit from the sea," and comes from a time when differently colored strangers (European) arrived in Africa in ships in the 18th century. What did the native people know of "other?"

Today, as we interacted with Peace Corps volunteers and the staff and children at the Hope Worldwide Botswana after-school program, I watched the faces of the children as they played. What did they know of the import of skin color? The were running, playing games, laughing, reveling in the moment. Their faces were warm and bright and our hearts were full!



Here we are in a country where white-skinned people are in the minority. My thoughts turn to our community at home and recent events. I am also reading a great book  (thanks to a recommendation from a dear friend): Between the World and Me, by Ta-Nahesi Coates. You can see where my head is currently.

We have learned so much about Botswana in just a few days, and we're not done learning and experiencing. But WE are not done at home either, with the work of living together in a diverse community where mutual respect, integrity of word and action, and an overriding humanity inform our work and interaction. We've scratched the surface, but there is so much more to work through.


Kaadinchey!

One thing to know about a country with a lot of stray dogs: bring earplugs because there will be a lot of barking and you will without a doubt be woken up before you want to be. 

We started our second day with a talk by Dr. Saamdu, a Lama who gave us a presentation about how Bhutan measures their growth and success. Rather than measuring by gross domestic product, they measure in gross domestic happiness. They believe that if you have a country that has a lot of economic success, but unhappy people, they can not be considered a successful country. After the presentation we went outside to share tea and have Q&A session about how this measurement has been successful for the country. 

During tea, Dash lost a tooth! We learned that the local custom is to find a rat and give the tooth to him to take away. So here is Dash giving his tooth to Ryan's stuffed rat. 
We visited the Bhutan Textile Museum where we watched a short documentary on how traditional Bhutanese textiles are made by hand and viewed some of the textiles that were worn by the Royal Family of the 4th Dragon King. Later on in the day we were able to visit a shop where they make traditional dress, accessories like scarves and purses, and wall hangings out of silk and cotton. 
Our lunch was at a local restaurant and was served family style. Here in Bhutan, chilies and cheese are their signature foods, so most things are very spicy. A lot of us treasure the times plain rice (and dessert!) are served. Despite the heat, all the local food has been incredible, and we're often taking seconds. 

We had a chance to visit the Royal Thimpu College. We started with a presentation by the President of the College and then had a tour of the campus. I'll tell you what, never again will I complain about the hills at Shenandoah because waking up hills at such high altitudes is quite the feat. It was well worth it though, the campus has the most gorgeous views of the mountain range, where you can see the giant statue of Buddha in the distance. They host international students from neighboring countries and fingers crossed they start an exchange program with America soon. 

Side note, every single time we pass a dog Taylor gets distracted and points it out. All the stray dogs on campus have been given shots so he FINALLY got to pet one. You don't know happy until you see Taylor Bloom petting a dog for the first time in days. We also learned that in the cycle of reincarnation, dogs are believed to be the step before becoming a human, so in Bhutan the stray dogs are well fed and respected by the local people. 

Dinner was at another local restaurant and was just as delicious as lunch. There was chicken, fried greens, cauliflower, white rice, a cheese and chili sauce to go with it, and momos- which is a dumpling filled with cheese and cabbage. I am obsessed with these things; I'm pretty sure I've eaten over 40 in the last 12 hours.  After dinner we headed back to the hotel and we all went down to the bar to share some local drinks and good stories. Kaadinchhey! (which means thank you, but is currently the only word we know, so it's being used for cheers!)

Monday, March 7, 2016

Oslo, Norway



27,183 steps per day later in this beautiful city has been the experience of a lifetime. Everyone is more friendly than we expected them to be. We love everyone in this group and we have all connected with each other more than we all thought possible. The architecture of the city blends traditional with modern and constantly captivates the eye.  The smells of the city tantalize the nose from the reindeer burger to the smultring (donut). It's colder than we expected but we've all adapted better day to day. As the biathlon has gone on we've seen free artists performing such as Eva and the Heartmaker, Gavin James and many more. This has shown us the culture of many others besides ours and some of us have actually downloaded this music already. Though the weather is cold, spirits are warm. The Norwegian people contrary to stereotypes has been incredibly open and willing to help us all out. The Oslo Opera House is deceptively small and due to government funding tickets are easily affordable making the Norwegian people more cultured than many Americans. We have also seen this evidenced by the beautiful sculpture park we visited earlier this week by sculptor Gustav Vigeland. We look forward to the next few days and can't wait to experience more of Norway. 

Team Botswana, GCP 2016

It took a while; but we made it safely and on time in Gaborone on Saturday afternoon.  This whimsical elephant statue (life-sized) met us at the airport! 
Wasting no time, we had a good dinner at our hotel, enjoyed a lovely evening settling in and planning details for our first day at Thamaga Pottery (with our guide in this photo),
Next, we were on to lunch and finally, to enjoy a short city tour and shop for beautiful fabrics.  Above, we are at the end of our visit to the pottery place.

Today, we had an interesting lecture on the diamond industry in Botswana, a tour of a diamond processing factory followed by lunch and then on to a government-sponsored health facility.

Tomorrow, we will put in a good day visiting Peace Corps Botswana HQ, where we'll offer help on projects there and shadow Peace Corps volunteers and projects at Hope Worldwide following a delicious lunch including seswaa (pounded meat), pap/phaleche and porridge.  Yum?  We'll see! 

Bhutan group finally takes Bhutan

After 36 hours of travel we finally landed in Bhutan! If you have a couple of minutes, do yourself a favor and look up videos of the fly in to Bhutan. It was absolutely breathtaking and I wish that the pictures on my phone could have done it justice. The descent starts with being able to see the peak of Mt. Everest peeking through the clouds and we continue down through the Himalaya Mountains, close enough where if you were standing on the wing you would think you could touch the sides of the mountain.  we land in a small valley and we get off the plane to be greeted by lush mountains and a small, picture perfect airport
Well, it wouldn't be the Bhutan Group if there wasn't a small snag to delay us from our adventure. While checking our passports, Tracy (yes, President Fitzsimmons, Tracy) has a passport that does not match the number we registered with. In between the time we applied for visas in Bhutan and actually arriving here she had to get a new passport and the number was changed on all the forms but this one. Or so she says, really I think she is in cahoots with doubt agent Ryan. After some time she was able to cross over and enter the country, on the condition that they hold her passport.  
The city of Thimpu is about an hour from the airport and we make our way on the only highway in the country. Although I use that term loosely, because it was a simple two lane road carved out along the mountainside. It's such a stark contrast from America, where we cut through nature to save a couple minutes off of our commute.
We checked in to the hotel and had some time to relax before we began our activities. First, we went to a stupor in the middle of the city where the people of the city go to pray every day. We walk around three times to make good wishes for the day. Next we headed to the 50 meter statue of Buddha that is just out of the city. On the inside there is a beautiful temple. The walls are covered in religious hand paintings, the ceilings in hand painted mandalas, and the pillars in hand carved statues. 
We then made our way to their weekend market where on the bottom floor they have all imported goods and on the top they have all local products. 

After a long day we headed back to the hotel for dinner where most of us called it an early night. 

Sunday, March 6, 2016

Put the lime in the coconut, and shake it all up!

¡Day 2 in la República Domincana fue muy increíble! We started out the morning by attending a church service with our Nazarene host family. We got to meet all of the kids during their class time, and they were all SUPER adorable. Most of the(3 hour long) service was in Spanish; we got to see a baby dedicated to the church, we got to partake in Holy Communion, and our group made our debut with the hit song "Lean On Me"(watch out for our upcoming tour dates). After the service, the people greeted us with such loving arms, offering abrazos y besos. 
After leaving the church service, we headed to eat lunch with the people from the church who were around our ages. Notice from the picture above, we ate lunch underground in a CAVE. How cool is that?! The buffet and deserts were quite tasty. After lunch, we all went to the park to learn some Dominican games. 
They taught us a game called batilla. It's basically baseball, but they use a broomstick as a bat and a bottle cap as the ball. It was great fun, and it was amazing to get to know these wonderful people. Some of them even came to our house to eat dinner with us!
At the end of the afternoon, as we were leaving, we had the chance to experience coconuts. We first got to drink the water, and then they cut it open so we could eat the coconut, too!
Next up: searching for the lime...

Saturday, March 5, 2016

Blancos Blancos! That's as blancos as they come...


Official day one has come to an end here in la República Dominicana! We're having great fun, and only half of us are sunburnt. We went out to spend some time walking around this evening to explore the community. We caught some gorgeous views and priceless moments. As we were walking, some boys were going by us, and seeing as there aren't a lot of white people around on a daily basis, we hear "Blancos, Blancos! That's as blancos as they come." We, of course, found some humor in the way they reacted to us, however, there was also a little weirdness in that moment because it isn't everyday that we're the ones sticking out like sore thumbs. 

We also had the amazing oppourtunity to help our hosts cook dinner tonight. Our meal consisted of delicious rice, chicken, fried plantains, salad, avocados, and some other delectable veggies. Even though they didn't want us to help them, they eventually caved in and we were able to learn about some authentic Dominican cooking. We're beginning to wonder how we're going to go back to eating the food back home. Maybe we'll be able to cook a full meal by the end of the week. If not, maybe we can convince the family to come back with us!

And one last highlight from today: it is now called "catchup".

Check back in to catch up on what this GCP group does next. Ha. See what I did there?

From Shendoah, to ShenDOHA, and beyond: traveling with a double agent

The Bhutan Group is currently 27+ hours in to our travel and we are still not at our final destination. Don't let that fool you though, we've already had a couple of adventures along the way. 
Hour 1 in to travel: we had just arrived to Dulles airport and were getting ready to check in for our boarding passes when one of group members, Ryan, realized his wallet had found its way out of his bag and was heading home with the shuttle. Ryan seemed unfazed and was whistling a tune to himself while he triple checked his bags and retraced his steps. We called the shuttle driver, got the wallet back, and were back on track. 
Hour 2 in to travel: the group is set on Five Guys burgers. We're all talking about how we can't wait to eat it. We walk all the way to the opposite end of the terminal to get it. Guess what? Five Guys is closed. That did not deter some members and they made their way all the way to a different terminal to get the burgers they craved. They made it back just in time to board, fueled up to watch some movies and catch some Z's on the plane
Hour 3-23 in to travel: relatively painless. After a thirteen hour flight from Washington D.C. to Doha, Qatar and a four hour flight to Kolkata, India we arrive in the airport eager to make it to our hotel for some showers after a particularly "aromatic" flight. 
Hour 24 in to travel: we wait in line to have our visas approved. There were only 16 people in line, including all 13 of us, and it still took an entire hour to do so . 
Hour 25 in to travel: "Ryan" gets stopped by the person checking him in. He's being questioned about his passport. Soon, 11 more agents come over to question him. "Ryan" tells them that it is indeed who he says he is and no, he's never owned another passport. Eventually, they let him through and we could continue on our journey. Despite the confusion and stress, "Ryan" kept a smile on his face the entire time. 


We've got our eyes on you, Ryan- if that even is your real name. 
Hour 26 in to travel: riding in shuttle to our hotel we passed over 40 stray dogs that are 100% fearless. They would lay in the middle of the road and would not move, even with a shuttle barreling towards them. One stray dog was a little different looking, it had horns, spots, and I'm pretty sure it mooed (there was literally a cow in the middle of the road at 3 in the morning)
Hour 27 in to travel: Everyone is tucked away in their beds where they can sleep without the aid of a travel neck pillow. In an hour we will be back in the airport getting ready to finally fly to Bhutan! 
More unexpected adventures definitely await the Bhutan GCP group and I know we'll take each one of them in stride! 

Travel status update

GCP groups going to the Dominican Republic, Ecuador, Norway, and Botswana have all arrived. The Bhutan group is in transit at Doha and are still en route as they have the furthest distance to travel.

Friday, March 4, 2016

Did someone say cheese and bananas... Or was that empanadas?

This GCP group has officially arrived in the Dominican Republic!! After a snow-filled 4:30AM call time and a LONG day of travel, we are safe in our house for the week playing some fun games. 


On our flight from Panama to Santo Domingo today, our snack was a choice between a cheese empanada and a beef croissant. Coincidentally enough, we all thought that our flight attendant was offering us "cheese and bananas" instead of an empanada, so we were all surprised when there was, in fact, no banana in our cheese-filled snack. Once arriving in Santo Domingo, we had some "fun times" trying to get our tourist cards(in order to be let into the DR). After getting that cleared up, we got to leave with our van driver to head towards our home for the week(we only got lost like four times). Our hosts for the week had an amazing dinner prepared for us when we got here, and it's looking to be an amazing week!
#cheeseYbananas #SUgcp

GCP 2016 groups have departed campus

From 4:30 am to 4:00 pm today, the five GCP groups have departed campus and are at various stages in their journeys.  Stay tuned for updates as we receive them...

Friday, March 27, 2015

A Priceless Gift in Cambodia

On our second day in Cambodia, my fellow 11 GCP travelers and I set out with our guide, Sopheara (which translates to “handsome”) to the countryside. Our plans included visiting an ancient temple and a Buddhist monastery and having a traditional lunch with a local family, who we were told, did not speak or understand English. Our guide would translate our questions and their responses.

Photo by Faith Ihongbe

We arrived at the lunch spot prior to the family and sat down on the mats at calf-high tables.  I could tell that we all were a little nervous, wondering what the family would be like and what they would think of us. It wasn’t too long before they arrived – a grandmother with her daughter, grandson and granddaughter. The grandson (we found out later that he was 6 years old), chewing on a can pop tab, almost immediately broke into tears and clung to his mother for security. His mother, translated through our guide, said he had little exposure to people outside of their home. How very strange we must have looked to him with our Western clothing, technology, and different skin and hair colors. The granddaughter (we found out that she was 8 years old) crouched down next to me at the table and starred up at me with her big brown eyes. I waved and smiled, trying to look as unintimidating as possible. I imagine she was just as scared as her brother but was trying to put on a brave face.  

Through our guide, Sopheara, our group learned that the grandmother was 78 years old and a mother of several daughters. We asked how many grandchildren she had. When Sopheara translated our question, she laughed and said in Khmer that she couldn’t remember because she had so many.  We also asked about her experiences during the time of the Khmer Rouge. She had been fortunate and did not lose any family members, most likely because her family was part of the peasant class and not a concern/threat to Pol Pot’s regime.

Photo by Michael Hollin

When lunch was over, we passed out Shenandoah University-themed trinkets to the family. For the grandmother, we presented her with an umbrella with an automatic opening button to shade her from the intense sun (after all Cambodia is close to the equator). She blessed us repeatedly in Khmer, and I couldn’t believe that such a gift (what I considered insignificant and boring) could result in so much praise and thanks. I’m not even sure, at that point, if she knew what we had given her, but she nevertheless expressed abundant gratitude.

We gave lanyards to the two children. I struggled with the selection of these gifts the most because I couldn’t imagine what they would use them for or why they even would want them. It’s not like they had keys or ID cards to attach to the lanyards. Still, I was compelled to find something useful about these lanyards for the children. I placed the lanyard over the little girl’s head, and remembering that the little boy had been chewing on a can pop tab, I broke off the nearest can pop tab and clipped it to the lanyard. I also removed the price tag card from the clip and set it on the table, thinking how rude of me it was to leave the price tag attached. She looked down at her lanyard and gave me a half smile.  I thought to myself, “Success! She now sees that she can use this as a necklace. I have given it a use and now she will like it!” The little girl bowed her head and put her hands in a lotus pose at her lips to say, “Thank you.” She stood up from the table to follow her grandmother but reached back to snatch the price tag I had removed from her lanyard earlier. I will forever recall this as my most memorable moment in Cambodia. Whereas I felt it rude (and completely unnecessary) to leave the price tag attached, the little girl perceived the price tag as part of the gift and equally important to cherish.

Wednesday, March 18, 2015

"Where are you from?" vs. "What do you do?"


These questions are often exchanged in small talk, but in the US and Fiji, their priorities vary, as Peace Corps Volunteer Nichole Lange pointed out to me in Suva. In the US, we usually ask the "What do you do" question (or its university variation, "what's your major?") early in making someone’s acquaintance, but in Fiji, the conversation starter is "Where are you from?"

This difference in questions reflects something I teach but seldomly have experienced first-hand, which is the difference between collectivistic and individualistic cultures (Hui & Triandis, 1986). In the US and other individualistic cultures, we emphasize the individual. Achievement, independence, liberty, privacy, expression, self-esteem, performance: all of these things are stressed on an individual level. Thus, “what do you do?” is an appropriate way to find out about an individual person, with the assumption that what one does gives us a glimpse into their personality.

In Fiji and other collectivistic cultures, however, the group is the focus. Whether it’s the family, clan, village, island, or country, the whole is more important than its parts. The question “where are you from?” reflects this orientation, as one’s heritage, clan, and self are inextricably intertwined. In Kioa, we heard about the many young people who have gone to university or moved away, but still return to take over their homestead when their family asks. In Suva or Nadi, when workers heard we had come from Kioa, they were quick to proudly announce their own village roots. Tim Doak, our Peace Corps guide, when asked the question by Fijians, often replied “Au lako mai Kioa,” reflecting his identification and affection for his adopted home. Similarly, he spoke of his Fijian brothers, sisters, and parents across the islands as if related by blood.  

More examples of collectivism, especially in Kioa, abound. In discussing how Kioans have accomplished various things from installing electricity to preparing for feasts, the answers always revolved around “the community...” Tim obtained raw materials through a grant for their seawall, but the community worked together to build it in three days, as opposed to the seven Tim had expected. When the village hosts feasts, food is provided by the community in the form of plates contributed by each family. Material possessions tend to be thought of as communal, rather than individual, and are frequently borrowed without defined return dates. If one needs something back, one can find it in the community. (It is an island, after all.)

Feast at the Fatele
   
The village nearly doubles in size every Christmas season, when children come home from the mainland or abroad and stay for weeks in the community. On a micro-level, a clan or family acts as a community too. Families construct their houses themselves, as opposed to hiring contractors. Family members sleep in the same structure as a community, seldomly separated by walls or rooms.

The village council seems to make all the decisions by consensus, as opposed to a mayor or other sort of individual leader, and in cases of minor crimes or violations, the council, as a community, determines an individual’s punishment. The council collects, manages, and distributes income from tourist visits based on the needs of the community.

Even in the ceremonial Fatele dance, there was no one performer highlighted. There were dancers, singers, and drummers, but no solos or showcased performances. The performers were a community.  




Certainly this collective style of life has its drawbacks. Privacy, for example, is nonexistent, and individual freedoms were limited. I also didn’t notice the variety in personality or dress that one would expect in a similar-sized American community. But, collectivism isn’t the sole cause of these differences, as factors like religious conservativism or low socioeconomic status should be considered as well.

It should be noted, too, that other dimensions come into play besides collectivism-individualism. A society’s “verticality” refers to how strongly the society views its members as different from one another, as opposed to equal (Singelis, Triandis, Bhawuk, & Gelfand, 1995). From my perspective, Kioa would be more in the horizontal classification, with a strong emphasis on equality and sharing. Although, when gender comes into play (which could be a whole other post), the assumed male superiority and differentiation of roles evident in Kioa points in the vertical direction. Another cultural dimension is that of “face,” in which a society places a strong emphasis on a social image of harmony and cooperation (Leung & Cohen, 2011). Disagreement and controversy are avoided in cultures of face. Fiji fits this description, as Tim and others shared with us the concept of the “Fijian Yes,” which is a vocalized “yes” but one in which the speaker has no intention of actually doing what is asked of them. But, to maintain face, they put on the front of cooperation.

To conclude, I hope to use my experiences in Fiji, and especially Kioa, to teach the individualism-collectivism spectrum with more vivid examples, at a minimum, and ideally, to help me and and others deepen our understanding that there is more to a person than “what do you do?” 

--Scott King

References

Hui, C. H., & Triandis, H. C. (1986). Individualism-collectivism: A study of cross-cultural researchers. Journal of Cross-Cultural Psychology, 17, 225-248. doi:10.1177/0022002186017002006

Leung, Angela K.-Y., & Cohen, D. (2011). Within- and between-culture variation: Individual differences and the cultural logics of honor, face, and dignity cultures. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 100, 507-526.

Singelis, T. M., Triandis, H. C., Bhawuk, D. P. S., & Gelfand, M. J. (1995). Horizontal and vertical dimensions of individualism and collectivism: A theoretical and measurement refinement. Cross-Cultural Research, 29, 240-275. doi:10.1177/106939719502900302

Tuesday, March 17, 2015

GCP-Malaysia+ (Stranger in my home region?)



It's 4:04 am as i write this post. Not all who wander are lost (404 = Internet geek reference).
Yes, jetlag is real. I thought i could stave off the ZzZzZ-monster attacks, but it was futile. The mid day nap ended up being a a full blown eight hour Zzzzz-time - i woke up at 10:30pm. Now i'm wide awake pondering what i'll do in a couple of hours... Might as well blog a little
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NOTE: I must remind outside readers of this blog that most GCP participants have never left the United States. In fact for some participants, the trip is their FIRST time on an airplane. Traveling non-stop for 25+ hours (flights + layovers) is NO JOKE even for the seasoned traveler.  

Being from the region, I have my expectations. Were they unreasonably high? I don’t know – Would you like to try durian? How about a runny half-boiled egg mixed with soy sauce? The point I’m making here is that I had to remember that the trip was not about what MY expectations were as much as what my group would experience in their short time.
(Remember, many participants have never left the United States. Whatever they know about these exotic foreign locales come from whatever research they can piece together – Wikipedia, Zoolander, Discovery Channel, Travel channel, lonely planet guidebooks etc).

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I'm uncertain of previous GCP trips, but I believe I'm one of the few GCP trip leaders who comes (born and raised) from the region visited, hence my expectations.

GCP leaders are told to manage expectations on the run up to the trip, i.e. don't promise sun, sand, and sea, because you might end up with clouds, rainforests and humidity.

Sun - the blazing tropical sun was a constant companion but we are thankful for plentiful cloud cover.
Sand – we had sand and more (rocks, pebbles, mud) as we trekked rainforests (can’t forget the leaches too)
Sea – we had views of the sea and we were drenched in the humid weather.

It would be an experience.
Juxtapositions of new world and old world.
Strangely familiar, yet so foreign

These are some of my thoughts and observations.
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1.      Eating at a hawker center (food court but a lot more hectic)
 “I’ve no idea what to order…”
 “Use that packet of tissue to reserve your spot!”
Experiencing a meal in Malaysia and Singapore can only be done at a Hawker center. Hot, stuffy and busy with people. You need to learn how to “chope(reserve)” your spot with a packet of tissue paper. You need to raise your voice a little to let the hawker aunty or uncle know what you want. You need to be ready to get yelled at because you can’t decide. This was a true experience.
 
2.      Food would be a challenge
 “We looked everywhere for pizza!”
 “Whoa! This is like food network good!”
"Shiok!"
"Sedap!"
I think we did well. It was certainly a stretch to try new foods. Readers need to realize that the “Asian” food that we have in these parts DOES NOT compare to what is found in Malaysia and Singapore (Much spicier, less “Americanized”). I think we all have our favorite foods from the trip. Ask around the group members. Somebody had SEVEN helpings of a particular dish :)

3.      Coffee in the US is rather watered down and pricey
“This Dunkin Donuts coffee is a little off. How much did your cost? It tastes great! $1.60?!”
“Going to make me some kopi-O when I get back!”
“Kopi-Kosong”
“Kopi-O”
“Kopi-Susu”
There was certainly yearning for Starbucks. Thankfully those were not difficult to find in the metropolitan areas of KL and Singapore. However, this afforded the opportunities to try the local coffee / tea / hot chocolate fare instead.

4.      I can’t haggle / bargain but my team can!
“Hey Boss! How much you want?”
“Hey, Boss. I give you discount”
I dislike bargaining with shop owners. I lack the skill. I’m pretty sure my group managed to get some rather sweet deals because of their excellent diplomatic bargaining skills!

5.      Our concept of religion and belief is sheltered
“We [in the USA] dislike discussing / sharing about other religions and beliefs”
“It’s like an experience to learn and know about another ethnic group’s religion. They openly share about their beliefs and they’re happy to do so”
Because of the multi-cultural / multi-ethnic nature of Malaysia and Singapore, the various religious beliefs of each group are evident in daily life. More important is the fact that these groups have not  fully embraced “post-modernism” (probably won't either). Though some might think this as backward, I see it as a stance against the loss of traditional values. Schools of thought come and go yet some traditions stand the test of time. We claim enlightened thinking as we press onward. Yet these traditional beliefs are the very basis of cultural identity.

6.      We take our resources for granted
“I can’t take the water challenge, I like long showers!” - ME
“I learned a lot about the rainforest and its value in medicine”
Resources that we use daily are an afterthought. We rarely stop to consider the amount of effort put into protecting them. There is much to learn from nature. She holds secrets that we have yet to discover. Yet we are willing to destroy nature because we “need” these resources. Needs and wants. Something to ponder.
Water is available at the turn of the tap. Yet there are nations that need to plan HOW they’ll provide water for its citizens in the future. The concept of environmental stewardship is essential.

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It’s not about my expectations. It’s about the experience that each member gained.
Some will be all-in from the get go, while others will take a while to warm up. But in the end, it’s the experience that matters. I’ve been blessed with a solid group of participants.

And to my group:
1. “Oi! Faster upload the photos and videos lah!!!”
2. Hope your "lo hey" wishes come true! HUAT AH!!

It's truly a privilege to lead my group to Malaysia and Singapore.    
In my best Eric accent: Good morning!